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Categories: Blog, Choices, pregnancy, Pregnant at 45, The Babies!
It’s time to face the music. It’s not that I’m trying to avoid it. It’s just that I have so many other balls in the air right now the actual task of preparation for this baby keeps being postponed. My goal is to have all of my Christmas shopping done and wrapped before October 15th. (My friend Amy would be SO proud.) This week I have to clean out my entire garage–and when I say entire garage I mean ENTIRE garage! Meaning by next Monday my garage has to be empty. As in there can be nothing in it.
So, baby prep has to wait. Except I know that putting it off isn’t the wisest of decisions given my history of shaving a few weeks…or months…off of my pregnancies. I’m really hadging my bets with this little guy, however. Given how well I’m doing … Read the rest
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Categories: Blog, From The Files of You Can't Make This Sh*t Up, perspective, Pregnant at 45, Shenanigans
I have the plague.
Okay. Maybe it’s not the plague. Actually I think I may very well have the “mystery virus” that is popping up all over the midwest. Reports say that those primarily effected are children. I know I’m not *a child* but I’m *with child*—er—so maybe that puts me in the high risk group? Regardless, I have been sicker than I’ve ever been before with some sort of respiratory illness that has rendered me short on oxygen and energy.
In other words I’ve been a worthless sack of humanity this past week. Hence my absence from the radio and this space.
Of course, the show that is the Savage household doesn’t shut down for sick days. Kids still go to school, activities are still attended, and the to-do list still needs doing. Of course, none of my chores have been slam-dunked this past week. Instead, it’s all been a giant example of “half-assery”. Well packed lunches were replaced with lunch money; kids were a little less polished in both their appearance and preparedness; and chores? Well, I resorted to a bare minimum to-do list leaving peripheral duties…like laundry… for the weekend.
I’ll be digging myself out for days.
Isn’t that how us mothers do illness, though? We … Read the rest
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Categories: Blog, perspective, saying goodbye
Around the middle of May my social media feeds were flooded with posts from parents who were”limping” across the finish line of the school year. Pinterest inspired lunches were replaced with lunchables…or boxes of crackers. Homework assignments that required parental assistance morphed from over-the-top to, “What homework assignment? Aw…just pull some scraps out of the garbage and glue them onto this posterboard…er…side of an Amazon shipping box.” It seems that when the pressure of our busy school year routines build up, the light at the end of the tunnel known as summer causes us to wave our white flags of surrender.
We need a break. We need to slow down. Can this be over already?
Funny thing is, I noticed the same thing about the end of summer. When school let out the first week of June I was ambitious. Maybe even a little over eager. I had a mental summer bucket list that included hiking in our metro parks; day trips to the shores of Lake Erie; and water balloons. There were day camps and art programs; swimming and tennis lessons; and backyard fires with s’mores. My cupboards were amply stocked with sunscreen and bugspray.
Fast forward to the beginning of August. Suddenly hiking, swimming and … Read the rest
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Sorry about my absence last week. It’s been a whirlwind of “firsts” around here and as a result I had some choices to make about how my time was spent. Sometimes I’m very disciplined about choices regarding time allocation. Sometimes I’m not. Last week left me with very little time for anything that didn’t have to do with one of our children.
Of course, that’s what happens when you have kids. And, when there’s five of them…well…at certain times of the year–like back-to-school-time– there’s just not much left over at the end of the day for anything that doesn’t have to do with them.
Thank goodness I like all of them.
The week started out with a return trip to college. Our dining room was suddenly filled with bins and boxes of dorm gear. I’m happy to report there was less than last year. Less stuff. Less stress and less anxiety. It’s amazing the difference a year makes. Drew’s already been there done that. Familiarity breeds comfort so a sophomore move-in is truly easier than a freshman start. Still, we enjoyed having him around the house for the past three months. We’ll miss him. The kids will miss him. Hell…our lawn will miss him–he’s a fastidious yard man. And I … Read the rest
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Categories: Blog, Daughters, gratitude, perspective, Surrogacy, thankful, The Babies!
It’s hard to imagine that three years has passed since Reagan and Isabella joined our family. Jennifer, our friend and their gestational carrier, joined our family for a celebration last night and she asked me if I though time was passing quickly.
“They just seem so grown up.”
And they are.
No longer babies, these two little ladies are really starting to show us who they are. To me that’s one of the greatest gifts of parenthood. Our children are not ours to mold and shape. They certainly aren’t extensions of ourselves. As parents, Sean and I can’t decide whether Reagan will be a ballerina or a basketball player or whether Isabella will be a tomboy or the most feminine girly-girl on the block. Of course, we have influence on what our children are introduced to but once the introduction is made, it truly is our job to observe and let the child show us who they are.
It’s a privelege to watch them unfold.
At three, Reagan is feisty. She knows what she wants and she protests … Read the rest